“We have failed to satisfy our KPI once more “,thats how your manager started the performance meeting .
You had such amazing idea to improve on the delivery to your customers , however you have contributed to the less satisfying performance , what would you do ? would you voice out your idea with the risk it might turn out bad or would you keep the idea for your self ?
That's a tough Question, whats not understandable is when amazing , creative and dedicated employee hold themselves down just to get accepted .
Self image is crucial for your life journey , without self image you are far way from reaching your dreams ..
But the question how can i improve my self image ?
How can i upgrade it ?
is it possible just to click a button and improve myself image as an upgrade to the computer software ?
Well i wish it was , your self image is the software that is hardwired in you , your understanding of yourself and the world around you starts from it .
Self Image is basically how do you see yourself .
Let me leave you with simple technique that have been tested and proven helpful for many of my clients :
” Stop thinking of people more than you think of your self “
Let me say it again “stop thinking of people more than you think of your self “
What i mean by that ?
Remember the world does not evolve around you ..
don't tell your self :what would people think of me if i did ?.
what if my idea was wrong would i be accepted ?
What would they say if ??.
All the previous statements reflect an inner talk that is about how the world will judge and see you , choose to drop such philosophy . if you don't your self image will suffer.
Basically be selfish in your thoughts and selfless in your actions .